Wednesday, December 28, 2016

A Whole New Palette! Plants

Banana tree


Today I was a kid in a candy shop!  I got to go out with my family to a large nursery and buy LOTS of plants for my garden.  It was SO much fun.  Some plants were familiar to me, some not, and they were all SO inexpensive.  We thought it would be fun to have some more edibles in our garden, so we bought a banana tree, an orange tree, a lemon tree, a mulberry bush and 3 fig trees!




One shopping cart

Another shopping cart

Another shopping cart

Some we can get at home, some we cannot.  The smoke bush, a red hibiscus, and a parrot plant.

Schefflera arboricola variegata-evergreen

licuala grandis

stromanthe sanguinea triostar-I can grow these outdoors!

dwarf quisqualis indica

Durante erecta purple


pachystachys lutea-Lollipop plant or Golden Shrimp plant (I think they called it Parrot plant here)

Lantana camara

Mini Jasminum Laurifolium 

Clerodendrum Thomsoniae-bleeding heart

Cestrum nocturnum

I put this outside my bedroom window on our terrace as it has such a lovely scent when it blooms in the night.

Urichites lutea

Passiflora Caerulea-I love this flower!

Loropetalum-I had one of these in Seattle and loved it.  Here it blooms all the time with it's wonderful tiny, fuschia spires.



Ipomoea horsfalliae-another stunning climber 
I don't remember the name of this one, but it's planted in our front garden


A red hibiscus!  Even the gardeners where we live had never seen one of these.  Hibiscus acetosella, common African Rosemallow.  It's bloom is deep, blood red.


Acalypha godseffiana compacta-these colors change from purple and fuschia to green white and pink.

Nyctanthus arbortristus-sweetest smelling little white and orange blooms

Pseudoeranthmum-bring green leaf tops, deep purple undersides, with beautiful flowers

polyscias fruticosa aurea
We arranged delivery for the next day and I was so excited to see it all arrive!














Friday, November 18, 2016

Date Night

Balu, our kind caretaker, was willing to take care of the kids tonight so Chris and I decided to go out to dinner together.  We got the kids to bed, headed out with our driver to a local place called Club 18. Because we kept him late, we gave him a couple hundred rupees so he could get dinner, then heading upstairs.  Club 18 is pretty close and on the roof top of a tall building.  It's open and beautifully lit, and very Indian.  This means that from the moment you walk in, you are assaulted by very, very loud music.  Also, being white, every head in the place turns to watch you walk by, surprised you are there.  We asked for a 4 top looking over the edge, seats with a view, but were told they would be filled in 5 minutes so we couldn't have them.  That turned out to be code for, "no way are we giving you those seats when there are only 2 of you" as they did not fill for over an hour.  Oh well.  Next time we'll know to call in advance and reserve for 4, then have our friends just not arrive.  




We had a really nice time. It was fun to relax and just spend some time together.  We could even hear each other now and again.  We decided to start with some cocktails.  This was amusing.  Club 18 has a very extensive cocktail menu. Yet when you try to order from it, the waiter tends to have no idea what the drink is, or informs you that that one is not available, or this one neither because it is not legal in India.  They don't seem to understand the question, "then why is it on the menu?"  I ordered a gin and tonic, and got a shot of gin and a glass of tonic, separate.  Same for Chris's rum and coke.  I did get a cocktail that was quite tasty, once I explained what a cosmopolitan was (even though it was on the menu).  So we had cocktails and some tasty dinner, and some time together in relative peace.  Nice.





And on the way out, I had to stop by the toilet.  For a very nice club, I have to say it was one of the nicer toilets I've come across...which, as you can see, is not saying much.  I am learning to always carry toilet paper with me!

 


It's just the picture you want to see at the end of a post, isn't it?!

Monday, November 14, 2016

Children's Day in Honor of Chacha Nehru

India's First Prime Minister, Jawaharlal Nehru



“Children are like buds in a garden and should be carefully nurtured, as they are the future of the nation and the citizens of tomorrow.” –Pt. Jawaharlal Nehru, India’s first Prime Minister after independence.

Every year the 14th of November is celebrated as “Children’s Day,” as it is the birthday of Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru whose love for children is legendary.  Fondly known as Chacha Nehru (Uncle Nehru), the first Prime Minister of India was worked with fervently for the education and well-being of children, whom he considered the bright future of his beloved nation, India.

Today as Grace and Alexander entered school, every teacher, every didi, every administrator greeted them warmly with, “Happy Children’s Day, this is your day.”  The kids were asked to dress in their nicest clothes.  Because most of our belongings are still somewhere over the Indian ocean (I hope), or perhaps the Atlantic, we do not have their nicest clothes.  So Alexander wore his new traditional Indian clothes, and Grace wore a dress she chose this weekend.  Balu and Sushil, upon seeing Alexander this morning, kissed his hands and told him he was Indian. 



You know when they're tired, they need their bunnies.


When they're nervous or uncomfortable with a situation, they get silly.


When they're really out of sorts, they cling to each other.  They are so lucky to have each other.


Nehru-A Very Brief History

 Jaharwal Nehru was one of the foremost leaders of the Indian freedom struggles and the favorite disciple of Mahatma Gandhi.  He later became the first Prime Minister of India and is widely regarded as the architect of modern India.  Nehru studied law at Trinity College, Cambridge and his 7 years in England, exposed to Irish socialism and Fabian Nationalism, broadened his horizons and inspired his nationalism.

Nehru and Gandhi in 1942

 Nehru returned to India in 1912 and started his law practice.  He married a few years later.  He met Mahatma Gandhi in 1919, after Gandhi had launched a campaign against the Rowlatt Acts, legislation passed by the the Imperial Legislative Council (British India) allowing political cases to be tried without juries and imprisonment without trial. “Nehru was instantly attracted to Gandhi’s commitment for active but peaceful, civil disobedience.  Gandhi himself saw promise and India’s future in the young Jawaharlal Nehru”  (http://www.iloveindia.com/indian-heroes/jawaharlal-nehru.html#dPjP0tet5LYjBpgL.99).

As a leader of the Congress in 1929, Nehru declared his aims for the Indian nation under his leadership.  He called for freedom of religion, freedom of expression and thought, equality before the law for everyone regardless of caste, religion, color or creed, safeguarding the interests of peasants and labor, abolishment of untouchability, protection for regional languages and cultures, and the right to form associations, among others.  From his second term in the Congress onwards, he was given carte blanche in framing the foreign policy of the future India.  During a time when the world was under dire threat of facism, Nehru developed good relationships all over the world, placing India firmly on the side of democracy.

In 1936, Nehru visited Europe and developed a strong interest in Marxism.  He then studied Marxism on his various imprisonments.  Nehru was drawn to the ideals of Marxism, but appalled by some of it’s methods, allowing him to develop his economic ideals adapting Marxism to Indian conditions.  As a strong nationalist, Nehru always stressed commonality of Indians while appreciating regional diversities.

At the start of World War II, Nehru originally supported Britain under conditions of independence after the war.  In October of 1940, Nehru and Gandhi decided to instead launch a limited civil disobedience campaign.  Nehru was sentenced to 4 years in prison and was released three days before the bombing of Pearl Habor in Hawaii.

Many today love Nehru most for his social policies.  He believed education for India’s children and youth was essential for India’s future progress, and was a passionate advocate of education all.  His government oversaw the establishment of many institutions of higher learning.  He sought to guarantee free and compulsory primary education to all of India’s children.  To accomplish this, he oversaw the creation of mass village enrollment programs and the construction of thousands of schools..  Nehru launched initiatives for free milk and meals to children to fight malnutrition.  In rural areas, adult education centers, vocational and technical schools were formed.  Under Nehru, the Indian Parliament criminalized caste discrimination and increased the legal rights and social freedoms of women.  Nehru also championed religious harmony and secularism, increasing the representation of minorities in government. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jawaharlal_Nehru)

Nehru’s inaugural speech given when he became Prime Minister of India upon independence seems a great respresentation of who he was as a man and a leader:

"Long years ago we made a tryst with destiny, and now the time comes when we shall redeem our pledge, not wholly or in full measure, but very substantially. At the stroke of the midnight hour, when the world sleeps, India will awake to life and freedom. A moment comes, which comes but rarely in history, when we step out from the old to the new, when an age ends, and when the soul of a nation, long suppressed, finds utterance. It is fitting that at this solemn moment we take the pledge of dedication to the service of India and her people and to the still larger cause of humanity." (Wikipedia, Jawaharlal Nehru)

One year later, Mahatma Gandhi, affectionately known a Bapu Gandhi, was assassinated.  Nehru addressed the nation:

Friends and comrades, the light has gone out of our lives, and there is darkness everywhere, and I do not quite know what to tell you or how to say it. Our beloved leader, Bapu as we called him, the father of the nation, is no more. Perhaps I am wrong to say that; nevertheless, we will not see him again, as we have seen him for these many years, we will not run to him for advice or seek solace from him, and that is a terrible blow, not only for me, but for millions and millions in this country.” (Wikipedia, Jawaharlal Nehru)

Nehru with daughter Indira and his two grandsons, Rajiv and Sanjay


Nehru’s only daughter was Indira Gandhi, the fourth Prime Minister of India and the only female Prime Minister.  Indira Gandhi was PM from 1966-1977, then again from 1980 until her assassination in 1984.  She was the second longest serving Prime Minister after her father.  In 1976, Indira Gandhi was able to fulfill her father’s dream of making India officially a “socialist” and “secular” nation by the 42nd amendment of the Indian constitution.